flight

gray divorce . . 1st eye heard this phrase was in pop press when Bill and Malinda Gates divorced . . and . . . when the curtain pulled up on their marriage . . there was no abuse . . yet it was not the kind of marriage any1 getting married wud want 2 c 4 themselves . . . cohabitate including sharing meals . . legally married . . vacationing 2gether plans 2 grow old 2gether . . if the curtain pulled up on my marriage 2 Hana it wud look like a marriage young ppl getting married wud want 2 have . . . this preamble 2 describe a tense negative move btw me and Hana . . an x change btw us that had the potential 2 escalate . . yet eye’m the 1 who runs as an alternate 2 escalation . . 4 3 days we navigated home life in a way that was avoidance and cold and we did not share meals 2gether . . we chatted via whatsapp txt and voice and . . . remarkably . . resumed normal married life . . . many ppl r tld they bring baggage fr earlier marriages . . in this case eye brought a solution . . wat decades ago triggered escalation in me . . . 2day and most or all of my multi-decade marriage 2 Hana triggers flight . .