¿Idealism?

given the opportunity 1on1 with the fathers of my late parents grandchildren they’ll hear fr me (especially the married-in 1es, self evident w born-in 1es) each of them will have my support till death, if they find themselves rift w my sisters, rift w their wives/exes or rift w their kids eye will take their side . . . overly-idealized thinking says: "eye don’t have2take a side", but eye lost idealism on this taking-sides fantasy . . wat will not happen to them is wat happened2the exes of my two sisters those fathers were passively shunned . . .