Erika’s warning

middle-age American living in New Jersey near the Lincoln Tunnel «« Erika’s name appears on multiple comments in this blog. Though she did not articulate the question I suggested she wants to know: ¿Why would anyone want to disclose content comparable to mine? and . . . and . . . and . . . Dear kind readers: Please don’t overlook how awesome this is. Sincerely, Tom Doody. Erika affimed I had articulated her unasked question. Coutless vids are like the Jake CNN vid I just watched and liked on youtube. Jake is famous for asking questions people don’t want to answer. The two professionals in the vid can be considered adversaries, and their missteps can be considered typical of adversaries. The opposite extreme is a functioning, intimate, healthy sexual relationship with shared habitat, meals, and vacations. It’s also nice when, “marriage” can be used to describe a relationship like these healthy relationships, but it’s not required. Many gay couples are examples of this high-level intimate relationship that only recently could be described as a marriage. In these healthy intimate relationships among other badges of health people answer one anothers questions, and in addition people are able to answer the question that’s needed, but not articulated. Mothers are famously great at this because they anticipate the needs of preverbal children. Participating in a relationship with a level of health like this, even if only briefly, is arguable what makes life worth living. My anticipating Erika’s question is a score that resembles those tokens that are usually only harvested in healthy intimate relationships yet unlike the aforementioned intimate relationship there is almost no downside. My death or mental disability would cause Erika to lose something, but her loss would be only a trace of what she would feel in a traditional relationship. For me I’ve suspected, “Erika left me” many times only to find after a long break of her comments she’s still out there with curiosities roughly in the same genre. Erika is important to me, but not as a commenter . . . as a reader. Her comments are conspicuous evidence available to be seen by others, but I have click-tap-history reports that reassure me people are reading even if Erika stopped. Dear Erika: Though I don’t think I’m done with my Erika’s warning series this might be my best. ¿Why would anyone want to disclose content comparable to mine? because people listen like they care without me feeling like I’m a bother. Sincerely, Tom Doody. Though the blogging rewards are not obvious to everyone the rewards are emotionally palpable with a renewable supply. »» about me 302-990-2346 contact us

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