revenge porn and happiness

middle-age American living in New Jersey near the Lincoln Tunnel «« Moments ago my “revenge porn” google news search did not find the headline-worthy story I saw yesterday, so I can’t make a specific reference to the news. The story was headline worthy, because the victim was a woman of status, and maybe held a US government job. Porn was harvested from her iphone during repair, and posted. The porn was exchanged between she and her husband. To make my point I add references from Jimmy Kimmel’s “pedestrian question” ¿Do you have nude pictures of yourself on your phone? Dear kind readers: If you would say, “no” to Jimmy’s question, then you might be surprised to see the many, “yeses”. Sincerely, Tom Doody. “No” people are likely to judge the, “yes” people as foolish, but it’s not fair to judge in this situation, because sex is very situational. The “no” people may have the good fortune of being in a long-term mutually monogamous sexual relationship that includes cohabitation without extended travel by either person of the sex duo. These same, “no” people might become, “yes” people under different circumstances. Dear kind readers: There is a relevant political point here. “No” people can start tracking to be a, “yes” person if their circumstances change. Death of a hookup results in an new hookup with an out-of-state or out-of-country person, and whala the “no” person becomes a “yes” person, which is a weakness of conservative politics that defines inclusion based on sexual practices. Sincerely, Tom Doody. The aforementioned headline-worthy revenge-porn was harvested during phone repair. The woman was victim in the most innocent way. These exposures are highly-emotionally charged with wide-ranging victim reactions. Dear kind readers: Though I would deny this is an advice blog I am going to offer advice. Use revenge porn to imagine yourself getting fifteen minutes of fame against your will. People bast to fame against their will daily, and it’s foreseeable it might happen to you. Precautions can reduce the chances of against-will fame, but precautions and preparation is the best approach. Sincerely, Tom Doody. Though this post started in reference to revenge porn it was all preamble to make one point: fear of digital exposure smothers a person’s authentic personality, and rehearsing one’s reaction to against-will exposure is a pathway to happiness. »» about me 302-990-2346 contact us

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