3 point marriage Q check

middle-age American living in New Jersey near the Lincoln Tunnel «« An external quality check of a marriage can make three relevant observations: ONE: legal marriage  TWO: cohabitation  THREE: plans to grow old together.  The classic story of the man who dies prematurely and survivors are shocked by a will leaving everything to a woman they never knew, and nothing to his surviving wife highlights a flaw in my three-point quality check.  External view of a marriage misses these hidden agendas except for maybe all mothers, except for my mother.  She has a sense of peace within me even when I’m in denial and I don’t know of my own disruptions.  In a recent letter to my mother thanking her for a Christmas gift Hana volunteered her New Oreans text that’s part of this Hana Miyajima blog.  Without questions, requests, or pressure from me Hana volunteer her text, and yesterday mama commented.  Since mother’s say so much to sons nonverbally mamas words will not be included in this text — I’ll only say it was awesome.  Mama’s words confirm what I know to be true: mama knows Hana is good for me — amen alleluia asalam alaikum mazel tov. »» about me  302-990-2346  twitter  nearlincoln@hotmail.com  contact us

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middle-age American living in New Jersey near the Lincoln Tunnel
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